Yeah, that's my biggest concern before entering a relationship. I've been talking to this guy for six months, and although he's not controlling, I don't want to be like monitored you feel me?
Oh believe me I feel ya. That's how my ex was. Super controlling and everything and everyone was a potentional threat. But I was 16-17 and "in love" so none of that mattered to me.
Heck no. I'm 19 and never had a boyfriend before. But I don't know.
Shoot more power to ya. Be stronger than I was 😂
Girl, at least you're stronger now! That's what matters :)
Dang how old are you? How long was this relationship?
I'm 19 now and we were together for 9 months.
Aw, wish you guys the best.
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Why do you think it's a waste of time? But I feel you that it shouldn't be forced and just flow naturally.
If you want a real relationship, it won't work if you start on a date over just meeting as friends. Dating you will be fake to a certain degree and come with a plan versus friends you just talk and try and have a good time. I really dont like the idea of dating multiple people too. I get that people do it and keep their options open but why should i get involved with a person who thinks that way. Who thinks its a game. Feelings, emotions and relationships aren't a game and a lot of people play mind games in this mindset. Plus most dating is all online and i dont want to start off on the internet with dating. Dating is for desperate people and it keeps you fake. I make a rule for myself and dating, ill only date a girl I've been friends with first.
Wow. This sounds like my situation. I met a guy in November, and he wanted to be in a relationship after a month. BOYYY. I told him that I wanted to get to know him and not have a "label" due to personal reasons. So now we're not dating per se, but we're talking... if that makes sense. And I agree with dating multiple people. I feel like you should focus on one person... if it doesn't workout then oh well.
At least you realize that you can be an asshole and you admit to it, that's a start 😂😂
Yes, it is been 4 years since I realized it. And still working on this.
well i went 3 months. was in no way long enough. i learned the hard way. you'll have to just that yourself. sometimes finding out after your married sucks
Oh man. Sorry about that. Yeah, I'm seeing this guy for six months, and I don't care if it's long or not. I don't understand how people say you should know after like a month. No way
it's takes longer than that for sure
Lol what have you learned so far?