Am I just too much?

I often get told by guys that I date that I am "too mouthy" or "too boyish" and I asked what they meant one time and they said this, "youre really... mouthy. you don't have much of a filter and don't like to be argued with. you're also really rough. if I wanted someone like my brother, I would hang out with my brother.". I play video games, I'm hooker in rugby and getting my degree in political science, I'm not quite sure why they didn't know what they were signing up for... how can I change this for the future, or are these things some guys like?
Am I just too much?
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