Thanks for your help, I've been talking to him in class and he's been sitting with my group at lunch time, your idea is great thankyou
I admire and respect you for including him. God takes care of those who take care of others. You're welcome.
You don't have to be rude. You don't know the situation, I am not a shallow person at all. I don't want to date him simply because I don't want to date him, and the fact that he has a mental condition will change the way I tell this to him and how he reacts. I didn't know how to do this so that's why I came into here.
If you saw that as rude, then you have something to feel guilty about.As to your question - the same way you would tell anyone else. like Eddieniceboy said.
I don't have anything to feel guilty about, I just don't appreciate being called shallow
you set about making it sound like the reason you didn't want to date him was 'some mental condition'. and you wonder why?
No, as I said earlier the reason I included the fact he has some mental condition was because that will change the way he reacts to it and the way I tell him that I don't want to go out with him.
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you've got your head on properly, good job.
Yeah but he means going out as in being boyfriend and girlfriend not actually going out somewhere
I think that he will understand if you logically explain to him the reasons why you can't date. But do not like establish the fact that it's because of him. I don't think he deserves that. so i don't know take the fall and say that you can't go out because of you. for example say you have got a boyfriend.
Thanks for your help