I'm the first girl my boyfriend has ever dated that wasn't his friend nor white. Before me his "ideal" type were blondes. I'm a black female who is 12 years younger than him. (not that it matters) Often I feel like I'm not good enough for him because I'm not blonde nor am I white. Do you think he's just settling for me? We've been dating for almost a year now. He says he loves me and says I'm a 10 but I feel like he likes me or is with me because he doesn't have any other choice. ugh! Am I wrong? How can I stop feeling this way and gain some confidence?