Online dating in big cities?

I recently moved to Manhattan and I'm trying to get to know people here through online dating

Problem is I've always used OKC but it's just chaotic in a big city like this, there are literally hundreds of messages everyday and I just can't keep up with that

I can't really pay for dating apps rn so are there other good options or are they all just that crowded?
Online dating in big cities?
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