i appreciate the well thought out answer, it really gave me a better insight of what you're looking for.
i generally feel the same say... thanks
makes sense; so you would date someone older if they're mature?
Yeah definitely. I prefer a guy who's 2-5 years older because they know what they're doing and usually want a serious relationship, unlike most younger guys.
generally the older guys are more prone to settle down, thats what i learned in physocally class.
Yeah exactly. Another reason, which doesn't go for every girl, is that some girls like to feel protected and taken care of, in a way.
that's a great point you raised and that's a very reasonable to want to feel protected and taken care of. i would want that too if i can find a lady like that.
Yeah well you just have to make sure that's what the girl wants. Some like to be independant and take care of themselves so..
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what are your criteria for looks and personality? does he have to be a certain height and weight, a nice guy with a back bone...
I prefer taller, decent to average build but being in shape is a bonus. Basically my boyfriend. Lol.
thats reasonable, 10 years also means a different era (music, fashion, mindset ) unless you're old fashioned or he keeps up with the trend.
thanks for your valuable opinion, it is definitely taken into consideration.
LOL.. ok.. thanks
I'm around that age, maybe we can work something out.
lol you're right but typically minors 14 and younger shouldn't be dating anyways.
Not necessarily. It's a good learning experience,
i respectfully disagree, here's why. being im a relationship is huge distraction to your education, your mond is somewhere else most of the time, young relationships are notorious for break ups because both dont know what they want (except sex) which leads to basically the end of your dreams (if you have any). im glad i got into a relationship near the end of jr year and a few months in senior year because i would have never learned anything and failed.
but if you want to find out for yourself, be my guest, just know that there are people who have done this before you and seen what happened. .. history does repeat itself.
I dated one person last year. I got pretty decent grades during that time besides math (I naturally suck at that). My dreams are still standing! Haha
well that's good you didn't get distracted and you may never get into a bad relationship and get distracted but it's just a low % of h. s relationship that actually worked and lasted. those odds aren't good if you're a gambling man.
what i keant by dreams are that when you get pregnant you put your dreams and goals aside and usually people dont ever get a chance to pursue their dreams due to juggle work and kids.
omg im so sorry, i didn't mean to lecture you. it's your life.
Don't be sorry
so an age difference of 4 years? okay thanks
thanks for your valuable opinion :)
may i ask why?
Cause I don't like men to be too much older than me.
an ex co worker of mine, married a guy 10 years older than her. she said out of the blue, "dont date a person nore than 10 years older because you are too different in times." from this day, i think of her and what she said when I see couples who are at least 10 years apart of each other.
Is that you in your profile pic?