Well he is an immature child, but he went from liking my facebook posts on facebook to just cold turkey nothing in May..
@AskerYou ended the relationship, so he has respected your expressed wish and walked away and left you alone.Now, you complain about that.This is why men say that women are fucked in the head.If you want him back, you need to tell him.Good luck with that, because men do not respond well to female mind games and shit tests.
so you still put in effort though?
I've told her how I feel, I've given her my new phone number, I just want to talk. I've had no response though. I don't know what to do
I'm so sorry i hope that she comes around
Thanks, that means a lot xI'm just playing the waiting game now. I can't carry on like this for too much longer, it's emotionally draining, affecting my mood and life. I need to have a good think about what to do, when to give up
What's going on dude, really?
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Yes, i asked him to move out and he didn't want to- but the relationship was toxic. He was liking my facebook posts in end of April, and then he stopped liking any posts. So now it has been 2 weeks and nothing.. :(
Oh, well if you told him to get out, it may take much more time for him to contact you again, since he'd be trying to get over you. I recommend that you begin a light conversation first, and if he were to respond, slowly get back over to where you want him back in the relationship. However you must do this quicjly., since he's trying to get over you. Just be careful of the toxic relationship.
Well I feel like, if he really loved me then he would at least try to say "hi". If he is trying to move on asap after 3 years of being together and living together- it would lead me to believe he doesn't love me and certainly doesn't miss me
Oh, you'd be surprised actually. By respecting your wish to get out of your house, with a heavy heart, he is agreeing to it because he's respecting the command that you want him out because he loves you more. He's staying away from you because he loves you, and respects your wishes. If you want him back, you'll need to let him know before it's too late.
so if you really love someone and want to be with her, you wouldn't just not put in effort right?
Bad way to think about it. You ended the relationship, for him to continue interacting/contacting you would depend on where you've redrawn the line. But "putting in effort" towards a girl that's already ended your relationship feel more like consent violation and a lack of respect, a good way to be a creeper.
I have to agree. Maybe just start talking to him again just as "friends" see how he's doing. and then you can determine if he puts in any effort.