im dating this guy we have been out to dinner twice, on the second date he asked when am i taking him to dinner. all my guy friends have said no do not pay for the next day. I have not slept with him at all they are saying that taking a woman out and getting to know her is part of working for her attention. i noticed the younger friends i have are telling me to pay for the next date. i really dont feel like it was gentleman for him to insist that i should pay for the next date. i have never had to pay for a dinner until i got into a boyfriend girlfriend relationship with a guy and we began to take turns. he does try to pressure me into sex with him but im not taking it there.
I've dated men who told me it is offensive for a woman to offer to pay. So i guess maybe it depends on the man?