Really? I'm 36 dude. I've never had a girl this up on my face. I like the attention. It feels great. But it's tainted. She went as far as placing my hand on her chest... but i guess you don't understand..
what do you mean I don't understand you explained it you know she is trying to humiliate you so why you allowing yourself to be in any way attracted to this person walk away
She is super hot! She only does this when we're alone together.. If she was an average looking or an ugly chick I wouldn't even be asking this.
I find it actually appalling but you just said if she was an average or an ugly chick you wouldn't be asking this but because she's super hot you will allow yourself to be humiliated I don't know what to say dude your 36 years old it's time to grow a pair and man up
I don't trust anyone, and yes I'm very insecure that's the thing. I think someone put her up to this. I think my cousin did or my mom's friends son. I'm not sure..
Then don't do it?
Easier said than done.. It's like a whole new experience. I like it. I may never get this kinda attention again.. It's nerve wrecking yet.. It feels wonderful to sit down next to her.
It's pretty pathetic that you're down for being humiliated just to get your rocks off. No wonder you're insecure.
I've never been with a woman before. I'm getting old.. Yes I know it's pathetic and so is my past with women
It doesn't have to be though. You need to work on your self esteem.
I've never been called handsome or much less been invited to a woman's place. She thinks I'm cute, so she says and laughs at my jokes..
She doesn't think you're cute if she's just doing it to humiliate you...
I don't know why you even bothered asking this question.
No one thinks I'm cute.. I don't really know if she's trying to humiliate me. I'm just thinking this.
Any other reasons why she would do this to me? I'm trying to think of one...
Not sure. What does she get out of humiliating you? How do you know her?
Well for one thing she's 26, I've seen her hangout with a few people I know. Then she all of sudden started talking to me by saying hi.. How are you? My name is Alicia..
Prior to this a few people were telling me to come out of the closet already. Where's your secret boyfriend?
We'll do what you want.
Yes this is my one and only opportunity. If I pass this up. I'll never get another chance... Oh well. Just yikes performance anxiety is obviously happening. She has had several boyfriends and has 2 kids. She has to have lost her mind if she is flirting with me.
TBH not really if you think about it
Ok? Why is that.. You're a woman. Why would she be warming up to me. I did buy flowers told her she's a very beautiful, sweet lady and she said once.. "Really?" I was shocked to hear that. She should know this. She's Hot!
Because she's has 2 kids... lots of guys don't want a girl who has kids.
A lot of lazy men don't want kids. I'm not lazy. Kids are a blessing. I helped raise my younger brothers and sister growing up. While my mom was sick. I know how to cook, clean, change diapers and keep pets fed every day.
Some guys look at kids as just another mouth to feed and just place them in front of a TV and call it spending time with them. I play football with them. Basketball, I can sew. Iron and mop and sweep with no disgruntled look on my face.
Kids are never considered baggage! They make a relationship more fun and exciting. Sure it's a lot of work and responsibility and what woman wants a man that runs from work and responsibility?
Could she really devolep feelings for me? That would be something
I don't know man. Do what you want
Thanks for the help blonde401.. You're a real sweetheart. Here just because you're a nice woman. 💐
Thanks. Best of luck
If you were any where near me I'd buy you dinner and pick your brain. Lol I'm sure your overflowing with knowledge..
Best of luck to you too
What makes you think that? Ah thanks.
Because. First of all you offer great feedback. You don't resort to childish insults. You so that you have a caring and show sympathy. You don't generalize me with stupid advice like saying. You're a loser. Grow a pair.. Stuff like that. You actually made me smile. That's very hard to do..😁
There's just no need to be like that. It won't help you at the end of the day.
So yes I would buy you a steak dinner. But your probably like 5000 miles away. Lol
I live in England so yeah
My point.. Yes. I am a valuable hard working, responsible and good with kids.. I also don't see why some men run away from kids.. If you like the girl and she had kids.. They're an added bonus..
Then show her that. Maybe she's genuine. But you're killing your chances when you act like you're not worthy of affection. Stop doing that to yourself.
I've shown her that.. I can't understand how a man can hurt his woman and hit her.. Then walk out on his kids.. That is not a man.
I've listened to her and she was telling me how bad the dad was.
You're not wrong. Well, be genuine with her and see how things go.
And if it doesn't? How much is a plane trip to England from US? Lol 😂 jk
Ha. I'm not dating thanks.
You gonna pass up a steak dinner with me? Lol ok.. It's your call.. 😁
I don't eat steak. And I'm full stop not dating. That means no dinners.
Easier said than done now that a woman actually wants to flirt with me and thinks I'm actually worth something. It's a great, mixed feeling of awesome yet a red flag 🚩 shoots up..
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