thanks. do you think its validated to change yourself for love? physically speaking
I think you should never have to change yourself for a boy that you have a crush on or having a fling with. BUT when it's coming from a man who loves you and you love him, worried about your physical condition, then yes I think it is validated to change yourself. If you're smoking and your lungs aren't looking good, he tells you to stop smoking, bruh stop smoking. However, I think you're asking about weight and yeah I think if you're overweight or obese, and he wants you to lose weight, maybe take it into consideration. Just think "health is #1, not looks". For example, if he asks you for plastic surgery, then I don't know up to you, but I wouldn't. He's asking something of you because of appearance, not of health.
what if she has a health problen that limits her abilities? I have a thyroid problem and my weight just isn't in my control. If you had liked my personality, would you still not have a relationship?
Depends how overweight. My mom has a thyroid problem also and I believe you have control in some sense but not completely since this is a medical problem. If she is not very overweight then ya if date her, as long as she is eating healthy and working out like I do.
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some of them told me that they'd prefer a girl with a more athletic lifestyle or that they just can't get it on because of my weight
How much u weight?
I'm 5'9" and I weigh 180 lbs
I gym like a bitch for it. But I mean, I have really wide hips so I have stretch marks all over. and because of my growth spurt, I have skin discolorations too. Its not a perfect body
Whn a guy likes u. Frget bout it he'll luv u the way u are. Big, small, tall, fat, thin. Obviously I believe that honesty works on the long run so, looks do matter sometimes more for man that for women but if u connect with him. He'll luv u
wow a girl that is rejected by a guy. I thought It's impossible