Why do people say "he took my girl" or "she stole my man"?

Anonymous
I hear this a LOT and it kind of bothers me. It makes the cheater seem like an innocent victim and puts ALL the blame on the one they cheated with/left you for. The "other person" didn't break into your partner's house, tie them up, put them in a bag and speed off... your partner made the conscious, deliberate choice to spread her legs/take it out his pants for someone else. Why do people fail to realize this?
Why do people say "he took my girl" or "she stole my man"?
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