I've been talking to this one guy (Bob) for a week. The conversation has been pretty good but he takes at least like 5 hours to respond and it's getting super annoying. This other guy I've been talking to since Friday (Jared) and he takes a long time to respond too and but then once in a while he's quick. The convos are starting to go nowehere. Should I make the move and ask them out (that's not normally my style to be honest) or are they just not that into me?