Girlfriend makes three times more than I do, and wants to spend a month in Europe. She wants me to come along but I can't afford it?

Jim1991
I'm saving up money to migrate, and at the same time pouring whatever's left into my start up. Product launch is the end of July. I'm currently working a corporate 9-5 (more like 7-9 lol) and I sleep at 3 because of the extra work from building my start up company. Earlier today she mentioned that she plans on visiting Europe for a month, and wants me to come along. Now:

- She's definitely not the backpacker type. 3-4 star hotel minimum.
- My annual leave each year is for only two weeks. Any extra will be unpaid.
- Its a long distance relationship so I have to save up to visit her every year ( Its not an issue for her, she visits me whenever she wants )

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Girlfriend makes three times more than I do, and wants to spend a month in Europe. She wants me to come along but I can't afford it?
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