Just gauging responses. The other person doesn't have to be the complete opposite gender version of you but very similar both interestwise and background wise. I keep myself pretty well maintained and wear makeup and high heels but having served in the military made me a bit more tomboys than most other girls around here (I live in NY). I act like a lady for the most part but I do follow sports teams and love to talk shit with the guys. I tend to go for guys who are like me, but they seem to be drawn to women who are the complete opposite of me. They're nice women but they're also very prissy and girly and tend to get grossed out easily (I don't). I'm not complaining, I'm genuinely curious. So guys (girls to), similar or opposite. Which do you prefer?