now that's an answer I can get behind
You're welcome, South African wisdom :-)
Nah this is a stupid answer. You don't have the authority to judge someone to be immature or lacking of emotional intelligence for not deciding to date or spend the rest of his life with a hookup girl.Maybe If you want to build something more than sex, you'd spend more time getting to know each other before f**king. Having sex outside of a relationship or being official or exclusive to one another is already setting yourself up for a fuck buddy relationship because at that early stage it could always go either way between both parties. The guy could wake up the next morning and move on. It is actually those who sleep around and hope things might still advance beyond sex are the dumb ones.
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I'm not talking about months
I agree I've just found often the longer I wait until having sex with a guy the more likely he is to want to see me long-term.
well its not always like that.. sex is just an addition but relationship is based on the mind sets