i am interested in a kid from my college (we've both recently graduated which is why this is so crazy to me!), but he's been very fickle with me. he'll text me on weekends and has flirted but we have never hooked up. I've known him for 4 years at my college. he does comment on my facebook and teases me, but any time we talk through text over this summer, I initiate it...except for when we were at college and he was "drunk." or at least that was his excuse. turns out I randomly asked him about one night (where he went around saying how blacked out he was) but he said "no I remember the entire time you were there."
he invited me for a visit to his home this summer and I thought he was kidding, but the next day his mom facebook friended me and left me a long message. as we continued to talk she said (a few times) "it would be nice if you came to visit this summer...hint-hint.. am I bad? yeah, I'm bad..."
BUT he really doesn't show that he's THAT interested in me. as far as I'm concerned, he just thinks were friends. also, I do know her. I'm not close with him or her, but he and I were on a sports team together so she knows who I am and has talked to my parents.
i figure, if he IS interested in me. why hasn't he shown that? it just seems that his mother took it the wrong way.
what do you think?
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As long as no one has unreasonable expectations, you should have a good time. His mother is probably just trying to be friendly.
You know her so you can tell if she already has you married or not!1