If you're just dating someone and breaking up with them is as simple as saying "we're over", is it okay to have sex with the opposite (or same depending on which way you roll the dice) sex?
Do you believe cheating is okay if you're not married?
What Girls Said 23
I don't believe in fucking until it is officially over. I don't need to be married to be loyal, if I agree to be monogamous to you that in of itself is a vow - unless your word means nothing and you have no code of honor. In that case, I wouldn't date that person anyway.1
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If you are not single and do not have permission from the other person (s) in your relationship, then it is cheating.5
Personally I really have no respect for cheaters in relationships. If you have needs that aren't being met, talk to your partner. If you can find a compromise or solution to meet that need the relationship isn't working and should be terminated.
A person's partner is often willing to make many changes or allowances if heathy communication exists.
I define cheating as any connection that I wouldn't want to, or would feel uncomfortable telling my partner about. It could also be anything I think my partner wouldn't want to see me doing. I wouldn't want to tell him I sent nudes to someone, snuggled someone else or used another man for emotional validation so they constitute cheating in my relationship.
Of course these guidelines apply to healthy relationships and not abusive or control ones.2
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No. If you are in a relationship, you have made a commitment. Whether or not you have a ring or signed wedding documents or not, cheating on the person you are in a relationship with is the same as violating his/her trust.
Unless you have an established "open relationship" and you both know, and are comfortable with, the fact that you're not going to be monogamous... but in that case it wouldn't be "cheating."
Bottom line, cheating is wrong. Don't do it.0
It's never okay. Even if you're "just dating" you never realise how much that will hurt the other person.0
Cheating is wrong. If you want someone else, have the decency and courage to break up with the person before you do anything else.0
Cheating on your partner is never acceptable!0
haha is this a joke question? of course cheating in a relationship is not ok1
cheating is never ok..0
First off, from your responses you are very clearly and extremely selfish and disgusting person who has no business being in a relationship. Any relationship is a commitment despite marriage. Like someone else said, dating leads to marriage, if you're always cheating how do you ever expect to get married. If you genuinely loved your girlfriend you wouldn't make up bullshit excuses like having a primitive thing you need to answer to. if you do then answer to it WITH your girlfriend not someone else. You're just full of shit dude.0
i dont cordone cheating cos it hurts the other party. why not just find someone who wants the same thing as you and not be in a committed relationship? solve all problems, no?0
no cheating is never OK wether your married or not. someone always gets hurt.1
cheating anyway you look at it is wrong. someone is always going to get hurt. be honest with the person. better to hurt with honesty then deception1
Cheating is never okay0
I think cheating is unacceptable and terrible and it shows how real somebody is when they're able to jus move on from one person to the next so quick. like chill take some time.0
Well, I think cheating is NOT OK.
BUT. Even though in a relationship right now, I'm so sexually frustrated that I would say "Yes, it is"0
No, what is the point of cheating when you can tell your partner that you just don't want to be in the relationship anymore. Simple. Communication is key.0
No. If you both agree to be in a relationship but still cheat behind the other's back, it's wrong.0
So much Nope.👎🏻 Please don't.🚫0
Not really. Feelings are still involved. And you still made a commitment regardless of a peice of paper0
What Guys Said 9
Even the way you word your question shows that it's still cheating. So no, it's not okay.0
If you are having sex alternately with multiple partners you have to tell them all so they can make an informed decision about whether to continue having sex with you.0
No , if you're single you are not cheating.
Otherwise you are cheating if someone else is involved. Makes you ( be it the asker or ANYONE else ) a weak , pathetic , coward and a prick in my book.0
What difference does it make whether you're married or not? A commited relationship isn't defined by a ring.0
Sex before marriage in general is not okay.0
Cheating is never okay0
Spare your partners feelings.
Don't do that.0
Nope, i would never cheat on a girlfriend. I believe in sex until after marriage.0
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