Well yes of course pure friendship does pass the test of Time :)
So friends - - > relationship or dating mostly a friend.., no space for friends with benifts👍👍
I just have always dated friends, i am not attracted to my friends generally, but if anyone's going to get close to dating me, it will prob be a friend that I fall for, I take a long time to like someone so yeah. I don't fool around if i haven't been dating for months. I am a hard one to win, I'm even attractive... yes the ego speaks, but I'll make myself wait too, because sex I could get from anyone if I wanted it, but I want someone that gets me wanting them.
But if I'm in a relationship I'm extremely loyal, and have never cheated. I just think treat your body like you'd never let someone's fingerprints stain the glass for the next person to view.
That's the best thing to wish for.. The gradual progression from friends to more than friends and then to say lovers.. Yes it takes efforts from both the sides to make it work but it seems the safest of the bets
So why do even such relationships end though they have had their origin in friendship?
Because it just does. Why did it start? Because it was right for the time. Why do I fall for them? Because they genuinely want to hang out and talk with you, they weren't just there to speak with the hot chick. For a girl that attracts a lot of men, it's harder to trust people I don't know
It's harder coz back of the mind ur always thinking like does he want me or my body.. So this dual thinking Makes the decision making harder..
So it's better to be with Someone u have previously known than to be with a stranger.. But then things could end the same way in both the cases
You see a friend is someone who knows of your faults and likes you anyways
But then liking and loving are a bit different and given a chance even a stranger can come to love u for who u r accepting all ur flaws and being fine with the perfect u
Yeah everyone's different. But I've never dated anyone I didn't know
May be u can give it a try would be a new experience for sure.. Or may be not who knows.. Sometimes it's good to stick to the old ways!
Pass. I want a quality man, a man where I knows where's his been... it's just how I am
:) it's great anyways when friendship goes the distance it does promise a certain surety
Any particular reason u think so?
Relationship runs long because it based on real facts/emotions/caring/non-ignorance everything whereas friends with benefits are based on, you know better what I m going to write... thats the reason I selected Relationship
😁 cool got that
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Any particular reason or just in general?
I see it as like having a relationship with God. It's better to know Him and be loyal to him always than not at all.If your friends with benefits with God then that means you never talk or obey Him, only when you desperately need Him in whatever situation you're in.
But then how can be equate it with ur relation with God.. We don't generally associate romantic relationships with God its spiritual religious something of that sorts.. Plus being friends with benefits can be easy without the emotional baggage.. But then after a while one does get involved more than just physical.. Kinda tricky situation to be in
Well, that's how I think of it. And friends with benefits, doesn't that include sex outside of marriage?
Well relationships dating or friends with benefits they all include sex outside marriage say before or after we aren't talking infidelity here though
Some people wait for marriage, so not all.
Well yeah some do value virginity.. I once read an article about a girl who was virgin till marriage and being a catholic she was praised for keeping herself virgin but post her marriage she couldn't lead a healthy married life since the thought of virginity had made deep progression in her mind and the sexual act itself felt like a sin to her
Yeah, poor girl.
Any particular reason for that?
Mostly because of my sexual orientation, my phobias, and my beliefs
Hmm so u believe in marriage or just happy to be friends and no to the physical side of relationships
Well I honestly don't believe in love, relationships, marriage, or friendship period! The only thing I do believe in is acquaintanceship and I think it's okay to be concerned about a person or help them with their problems but as far as anything else; the answer is no.
That's one way of life.. But then isn't it a lonely one? To be detached from everything no relations and all
I don't see it that way that way! It's not a lonely life unless you exclude everybody out of the picture and keep to yourself, but as I said before, I still want to have acquaintances! I don't wanna be alone completely. I would very much like to surround myself with loyal friendly people that I can talk to and hang out with; in order to take my mind off of my problems and kill time maybe.
Well it's good to read that but here u somehow contradicted ur self... Acquaintances are just the people we know.. How can we expect loyalty and friendship from them.. Yes from friends we can expect that.. That's what friendship means yeah may be no to relationship or a romantic involvement but friendship pretty much seems to be in ur belief system
No I have not contradicted myself! Acquaintanceship is not the same as friendship but I don't want friendship or anything else. All I want is acquaintanceship!!! Just someone to kill time with... I'm not looking for someone to love me back! I'm not looking for commitment, and I'm not looking for honesty, trustworthiness, or long-term ties. Anyway have a nice day! Bye
And by the way, that's the main thing I am seeking for. I only need people in my life that I know and people that are cool with me. Not someone to progress with!!!
It's not that's what I said friendship is a bond acquaintance isn't just a person we know by.. Relationship is all together a different subject.. That's what I said friendship seems the perfect fit where u can spend time be cool with people and they are loyal to u and vice versa I didn't talk of getting involved with someone.. An acquaintance is a person we know hi hello how r u thats it u can't be comfortable in sharing ur ups and downs with them while with friends u canAnyway :) babye
But you were talking about friendship! I was only talking about acquaintanceship... And yes it is definitely possible! Acquaintances also be cool with each other too!! They can share their ups and downs with each other!!! The difference between friendship and acquaintanceship is that everything involving acquaintanceship is optional and there is no limit.
Yeah I talked about friendship coz u mentioned loyal and friendly in somewhere.. How an acquaintance be loyal I can't think of it.. But yeah can sure serve the purpose of having a drink at the bar and hanging out and then going separate ways.. Like u said optional
I did not mean loyal as in always being there for one another! I just meant loyal as in not doing anything crazy to another. You may or may not be cool with them; but you still don't wanna hurt them in any way...
But when friendliness should always be require! Whether it's friendship, acquaintanceship, or something more
Well in that case being respectful would be the word loyalty won't fit there being in ur limits and respecting the other ones choices/thought etc.. Yeah friendliness should be there u can't have a conversation when someone is hostile.. Plus an acquaintance can turn into a friend over time.. Just saying or may be not who knows some air of uncertainty exists there
Now that's the part where I disagree! I'm talking about when you said an acquaintance can turn into a friendship. I don't believe that because there are some people who have known me for a long time. We've been talking to each other and hanging out with each other; since we were teenagers but I never stopped considering them as an acquaintance. We only treated each other as an acquaintance
Well then it's a matter of how we lable the people we meet.. The definition changes from person to person like what an acquaintance means to u isn't what it means to me just a difference of opinions in the end :)