So do any of you girls give these kind of guys a chance or are we supposed to be hopeless?
Do any you girls date the insecure, not confident, average looks guy?(Any of those 3 or just one works)
What Girls Said 4
Smile! Your not hopeless. They'll always be those girls that go and date only the most popular guy in the grade. THen they'll be the girls that date the really popular guys but also look to the less popular, more nerdy ones. Me and my best friend usually dated football players and such, but then we went around and started making new friends with some of the guys that aren't so popular. I've talked to a lot of these guys, and a lot of them had never had a girlfriend, aren't confident at all, so on so on. We've gotton them all girlfriends, you just need to find the right girl. GO out there and find a girl who likes what you have to offer. Don't try to change for anyonee. Just be happy, you'll find someone (:0
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ok well the average look thing is a yes but the insecure not confident part... think about it why would you want to date someone [ guy or girl ] that is not fully confident in themselves , no guy or girl should be looking to a relationship if their not confident in themselves.0
What Guys Said 3
Im gonna be honest with you because you seem to be going through the same thing I am.
This is just an observation that myself and my cousin both agreed upon. A majority of Women want men who are good looking, out going and/or athletic. Now if you don't fit into those 3 categorys all hope is not lost some women will go for more quiet guys. But here is the problem, how many single women do you see your age compared to men? Know think about that number and ask yourself this, how many women would go up and make the first move that are single?
Now my cousin is older and he has assured me there is still hope yet. It should become pretty obvious that by the time people reach there late 20's several people have settled down and decided to start a family. At this time women will ask themselvs who is gonna make a better parent. Often they chose the guy with those 3 qualitys I mentioned earlier but at this time a mans personality is the main focus.
I myself have in the las tmonth or so have been hanging out with women in there late 20's and I have found them not only much more open minded to the men they like but also much more easy to talk to.1
God I wish more would2
Sadly I don't think girls would date a guy in those categories.0
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