How important are these three words "I love you" in the relationship?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • I got broken up with a few times after saying "I love you", because, apparently, she's not ready for words like that in the 3rd month of our relationship. 😂😂😂😂😂

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  • Actions are more important and impact me more deeply, if it's not said I can usually tell from their actions.
    For example when he kisses my forehead when we are cuddling, things like that, I can just tell 😊

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What Guys Said 16

  • It is not so much saying it as it is how you show it when you say it! Do you get cuddly and close and whisper it in your beloved's ear, or do you just say it from a distance without any emotion in your words?

    Saying I love you is very important in a relationship BUT, you need to mean it by expressing it as you say it!

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  • I make sure to say that to my wife every day that I talk to her and it's the last thing I say when I talk to her or email her.

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  • Well it depends; this one gay kid I know said it to me on graduation day and I wanted to uppercut him into the sun. If you're gay it's not good, if you aren't it's okay

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  • Not remotely important. I think people put too much meaning on the phrase

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  • Real important. But guys often don't say it. They show it by doing stuff like mowing the yard or fixing a garage door or...

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  • It's the most important thing in the relationship !

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  • It's a powerful word, the sad part is it isn't very important and sometimes people take it for more than it's worth.

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  • Important enough not to diminish their meaning with careless use

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  • Personally I love hearing it but I'd rather see it in actions then in words

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  • Very Very important

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  • Not very as long as she shows it and I feel it.

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  • A lot

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  • A lot

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  • It's important

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  • Not important

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  • They are so important because the guy is not getting any without having said them.

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What Girls Said 7

  • I don't want just words. I want to see love in that persons actions.

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  • Very. Ideally it's something you should say everyday but only if you truly want to.

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  • Very important for me, don't say it if you don't mean it

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  • No important

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  • very

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  • Soooooo important for me.

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  • Very important. I don't continue a relationship after 3 months if it's not said.

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