What about love? That doesn't matter?
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Huh. This seems familiar..
I'm not sure love really factors into whether or not you choose to date someone, since at the very beginning of the relationship, I at least don't necessarily love the other person. I might like them a lot, but there's no deep connection there that creates the sense of obligation that I think you're trying to draw on here. I don't owe a date to somebody who I don't really even know, no matter how they feel about me.
If you're talking about attraction instead, you have to consider that ambition makes up part of a guy's personality, which plays a major role in determining attraction. For some women, a lack of ambition might not be enough of a deal-breaker to stop them from starting a relationship, but others will be turned off right away. Within a relationship, a lack of ambition may or may not cause problems, and may or may not eventually cause a break-up. I personally have turned down people for dates and for relationships because I felt like we didn't match up in terms of ambition, but I would imagine the threshold of acceptability varies from woman to woman.
Hope this kind of answers the question you asked - it's a little vague.0