a girl or guy that has a kid? I mean like honestly.. I'm just kinda curious.
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That would depend on a few things. At this point in my life I probably wouldn't date a guy with a child simply because right now I'm just looking to be young and have fun. Not only do I not want that responsibility right now, but it's also unfair to the child. It would be hard enough bringing a new woman into the child's life, but since I'm not looking for a serious relationship right now there's a good chance it wouldn't last, so it just seems cruel to let a child take the time to get attached to you then leave. It just seems that this kind of thing would leave a kid with some abandonment issues and I'm certainly not trying to do that. In a few years when I'm done with grad school and looking for a serious long term relationship than I absolutely would date a man with a child. A good person is still a good person if they have a kid, so why not0