Would you date a police officer? Why / why not? My boyfriend wants to try to go into policing next year I dont mind but some of my friends telling me that he won't have much time for me anymore if he becomes a police officer Is that true?
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Most Helpful Guy
Yes your friends do have a point since police officers usually work all kinds of hours which will strain the relationship and that’s just the beginning. You will obviously worry about his well being. If he make detective expect him to be at their beck and call. I am thinking of trying out myself but since I am not really looking at long term dating it’s not a issue. I would probably date a police woman if I liked her enough. You should have a in depth conversation about it and find out whether or not you both in the right place at the moment if he does decide. As long your willing to compromise on quality time and work out what You want and expect your relationship should only strengthen.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Of course I'd date a police officer! Sure, maybe they don't have flexible hours and stuff, but I'm sure that we could work through the problem. They could give me a sense of security, which is really important to me. And athletics guys are amazing!!! Plus you don't need to be with the 24/7, space is good. Time away from each other is the best way to test a relationship. However for long term relationships and marriage, I would hope that they wouldn't have to follow dangerous cases where there is a big chance they would get shot/ hurt. I don't want to lose someone I love, and I hope they understand that I don't want anything to happen to them. There are many departments in the police station, and I hope that they would be willing to switch to a safer position. I think it would be best if they could find a partner that could accept them with this dangerous job if they don't want to change their job. I highly respect they choices in career, and that they have dreams. But I think life, and health will be of more importance. So my answer varies depending on the stage of the relationship. :)1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE