Most Helpful Guy
They must have a few of those qualities though, otherwise you wouldn't crush on them in the first place. It's about compromising, if they tick some/most of the boxes you're willing to overlook the others.
Most Helpful Girl
Nope, and I wouldn't be surprised that it happens this way. Attraction isn't something you can always reason your way into, or out of.
There are WAY too many factors that go into the picture for you to be able to perfectly plan for it. Attraction is about more than aesthetic preference, or holding similar values, or sharing similar interests... it's about all those things taken together, and MORE. Not to mention the biological factors--a large part of physical attraction occurs on a subconscious, biochemical level, which you can't really predict or control.