- Only if she let me make all the decisions regarding the surgery
Most Helpful Guy
Depends how strong our relationship is as well as if it is something for medical reasons or not.
If she's just a friend and nothing more, most likely not, especially if it was just cosmetic. But if she is my girl and she needs me financially for big purchases, than I would consider it more, but it would have to be of a purpose I find that is needed. If it's something to do with her nose not slender enough or her boobs need to be bigger, than I would want to know it's to make her feel better about herself, and not just because she feels bigger boobs look better or something. It can't be something superficial for me to pay shit loads of money, when it is something that really doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things. Then again, that's a slippery slope when you talk about what matters to people.1
Most Helpful Girl
My boyfriend knows I'm very insecure about by breasts. They're a perfect size for me. My breasts aren't perky, never have been either. I've expressed an interest in getting a breast lift, he's offered to pay for it. He tells me it doesn't matter to him, that he loves them the way they are and so on, but he knows I'm uncomfortable with the way they look out of a bra. I've been with him for many years and it's not a sugar daddy situation, I'm not one for expensive gifts and I don't look for him to "take care of me" financially. He just knows it would make me feel better and would be willing to do that for me.
I can understand why this could be an issue for other people. If a guy wants to change you with plastic surgery that's a whole other issue and then you should walk away. In this situation though, I think it's very sweet of him to want to do something like this for me that would help my self confidence.1