I think so because the truth is, men like a woman for who she is but women like a men for who he has. A man doesn't mind if a women doesn't have ambition just as long as he likes her for who she is, but a woman would never touch a man in the same circumstances no matter how great he is in other areas. And it's ok if a woman doesn't like a man due to his height but it's not ok for a man to not like her due to her weight and so on. What do you think?
Most Helpful Guy
I can accept a girl/ women in whatever form they come in. From looks to wieght. I'm not really bothered as long as they are with me for me and if they don't have much to offer but love, which I'd be fine with, even if thats was the only thing they was able to give me, thats all I'd care about.
But they don't do the same for guys.
And nice guys like me get ignored cause we haven't got looks of attributes that meet their standards.2
Most Helpful Girl
I don't believe anyone is shallow just because they have standards and preferences. WE ALL have them. If people didn't have standards , and preference that would mean they'd date anyone and everyone. That would be evidence of their own low self-esteem , and lack of self-belief.
I prefer a guy to be tall , my boyfriend doesn't complain about my preference, because he is over 6ft. The only guys who accuse me of being shallow, and have an issue with my preference is guys who are insecure about their own height. That won't influence me to change what i want
I enjoy wearing makeup , but some guys don't like girls wearing makeup. That doesn't mean they are shallow. That's just their own personal preference -what they are physically attracted to.
Only those with no self-worth , and no confidence in themselves have no relationship standards and preferences2