I am so unlucky in dating.
I met a guy and he seemed so nice and mature. I wasn't that attracted to him physically, but I decided to give it a shot.
After only a date, he is pushing me to go out in less than 24 hours. I know he likes me so I took it as a good thing. I was busy and couldn't promise anything.
However, we had a conversation and it was way too much: he was saying he wants me in his life, he needs me and he wants me to move in with him. A red flag!
Well, I need a guy in my life too, but I believe such haste and eagerness only after 24 hours is a bad sign.
I decided to end this before it even starts.
What do you guys think?
Most Helpful Guy
Not only was that the right decision it was the only option he gave you. It's sad that a man, at any age, could openly express such a serious mental instability. You may have helped him make a critical emotional adjustment that will benefit him his whole life if he allows logic to prevail and submits to introspection and right, wrong or indifferent accepts responsibility for his circumstances. Only then will he come away with the huge benefits of a hard life lesson and not repeat his negative behavior.
Most Helpful Girl
I don't agree with the rest of the opinions. He likes you, but not for the long run. I'm recognizing love bombing. That's not a good thing, it's to fast forward and get you to fall for him and do whatever he wants and to adore him and feed his ego. He will drop you and/or pull away after he has acomplished that. So really well done by walking away, I suggest you stay away.