I am a 25 year old college student who is really fed up with dating. I am tired of taking girls out on dates, dishing out money, and worst of all having the relationship go nowhere. It is something I don't feel comfortable doing even if the relationship went somewhere. I feel as if I am paying for a woman's time and that is just not right!
I see a lot of woman answer these questions with "well the man should pay for the first date" or "whoever asks should pay", which is pretty convenient since honestly, how often do women ask men out on dates?
Paying for a woman was expected in a time when women did not work and they relied on the support of a man, and clearly this time is dead. Why are men still expected to carry these tasks? If we do not we are many times ridiculed and classified as cheap, immature, etc.
I am a retired model who has gone back to school. I am not tight on money but have no present income. I feel I am good looking, intelligent, caring, and deserve the same respect and treatment that I give to a woman.
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