I always hear about how “shallow” it is to break up with someone for being poor, however money is extremely important in a relationship. Dates and bills don’t pay themselves and I’m just unhappy that this person is never going to be able to provide me with the comfortable lifestyle I want. He can’t even afford to buy himself a used car that works. I’m really unhappy because of this.
Most Helpful Guy
It's not shallow, it is smart. If he can't support himself, he can't support a family. Don't be a goldigger, but make sure your guy has some direction in his life.4
Most Helpful Girl
Financial stability is a very important part of a relationship as far as I am concerned. If a guy can't take care of his own finances, or is unable to plan for the future, what does that say about how stable his relationship is with you?
I think it is a reasonable deal breaker. There is nothing shallow about it.1
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