Most Helpful Guy
For a very shy guy like me, relieved. I always have this feeling that if I put the moves on a girl she's going to think I'm a creep for some reason. If a woman makes the first move that's usually enough to push away my insecurities and I will be much more aggressive from there. So ladies, if you like your guy and he's not making any moves on you. Guess what, guys are shy too. Some are really shy. Sometimes all it takes for you is to break the ice and make the first move and then he'll feel comfortable that you don't think he's a creep and he'll probably have no trouble making moves in the future. But give that guy a chance, because just because he's not trying to jump your bones doesn't mean he's gay and it doesn't mean he doesn't think you're attractive. And don't discount a shy guy. A lot of guys are pretty tough freaking guys but our little bit shy around women. I'm talking about manly men that other men look up to secretly may have some insecurities with girls. So make sure you give that shy guy a chance and think about making the first move yourself.3
Most Helpful Girl
I've done it before and it's really no bueno. The guy almost always expects you to keep it up. I personally don't like being the one to lead and I noticed that when I make the first move the guy acts like I'm suppose to be the initiator.
I thought giving a push would help but forget that I'm waiting out next time. I don't mind dropping obvious hints like there's no tomorrow but I will NEVER make the 1st move again!!!
I find out later there's a reason he didn't make the first move; he was taken OR didn't like me that much I was an option6
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