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Most Helpful Girl
I don't have a problem with family oriented. With overly protective, I guess it depends on the level of overly protective. I mean, does he want me to call him and make sure that I got in safe, or speak to me every day, look through my phone? That I'm all ok with. Or are we talking controlling over-protective like wants to know where I'm at and who I'm with every second of the day or won't let me go to the mall by myself because there are other men there or something like that? Those kind of things would probably get to me. I wouldn't cheat on any guy I'm with, but that kind of control/clinginess would make me feel smothered.
Most Helpful Guy
Been there done that, have the scars to prove it.
I will never date another person that is overly family oriented, don't need the drama of them being into everyone's lives and everyone into theirs.
I am also weary of over protective people as well, have been caught up to many times in the drama of someone defending someone even when they know that person is totally in the wrong.
I love my family and do a lot of family oriented things with them, but we don't live in each other pockets. I am a loyal protective friend, but I see the good and the bad in people and I will not defend someone who is doing wrong.