Most Helpful Guy
A few times, I have met a woman who was captivating. She was very attractive, alluring, enticing, interesting, charming, etc. and I felt an immediate attraction to her. I met such a woman two weeks ago at a Christmas dinner I atended at the invitation of a mutual friend. Some might call it "love at first sight" but it is not love because I do not know her well enough to love her. I am simply compelled to get to know her better, to spend time with her, and to determine whether there is a basis for a good long term relationship. At out first meeting, if she had asked what I wanted, my answer would have been, "You."
Most Helpful Girl
Now if a guy randomly said that to me, I would think he was after just one thing. And that one thing ain't no relationship.