Why did this guy just say he wants me?

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HE randomly first asked me what I want then I got confused and said why is he asking me that. I asked him what he wants he then said 'you.' And I asked in what way and he said 'like everything.' He then kept asking me what I want and not to be embarrassed to say it

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  • A few times, I have met a woman who was captivating. She was very attractive, alluring, enticing, interesting, charming, etc. and I felt an immediate attraction to her. I met such a woman two weeks ago at a Christmas dinner I atended at the invitation of a mutual friend. Some might call it "love at first sight" but it is not love because I do not know her well enough to love her. I am simply compelled to get to know her better, to spend time with her, and to determine whether there is a basis for a good long term relationship. At out first meeting, if she had asked what I wanted, my answer would have been, "You."

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  • Now if a guy randomly said that to me, I would think he was after just one thing. And that one thing ain't no relationship.

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    • You tattooed fairy you!! Ha are speaking with experience? Are you ok with someone being honest and getting right to the point if the point agrees you? Sex with no strings attached mentioned more than just his desire to get u into bed

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  • He probably wants you to be his girlfriend but somehow miraculously played out a bad scene in a romantic 80's movie.

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  • Men like and want what they can't have, beautiful women always attract the attention of men because attraction is so easy. He wants your attention, affection and to get to know you. I think summed it up from another comment here, take it as a compliment even if you feel it's weird or unappealing to you

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  • First you have to trust the guy. And that should come with time.
    Two possibilities. The first is that he wants to know what it is going to take just to get with you physically. It takes time to know his true intentions.
    Second he may genuinely like You overall. But if he is that interested then he can wait to get to know you better.
    If you know any friends of his they can be a good source of information to find out what kind of guy he is.
    Hope this was helpful.

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    • There's nothing wrong with a little mystery. Let him figure you out over time. Let the chase begin.

  • He likes you in all matters. Regarding your age -I assume he's not much older- there's a chance his emotional perception is blurred by his sexual urges, but anyway that's what it would mean if it were me (or had been me by that age).

    It is complicated that a solely physical attraction would evolve if a connection on the psychological level did not exist, as the feeling of rejection is a powerful deterrent.

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  • He wants "you"... Specifically "like everything"

    So yeah. My assumption is he wants a relationship with you. He wants you. The Complete Package. Not your lips or tits or ass or whatever. All of you.

    I think it's kind of cute, in a corny-clumsy-romance kinda way. xD

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  • Every guy looks at the face and body of a girl first. Your face seems good but nothing is known about your body. Hence I have to assume that your curvy body invites his attention to start to know you well. So he wants you and your time to get to know you more and more.

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  • Hmm..
    The way he worded it sounds like he likes you but I can't be sure because I don't know in what tone he said it, did he sound desperate when he said it or did he say it casually?

    Casually= Most often this tone is because he only likes your body/ appearance

    Desperate= Liking all of you most of the time and is desperate because he is worried about the answer.

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  • Any other details? Or did some random guy just say 'I want you'? Usually if a guy is bold enough to say that to a girl he never met, it's an attempt to get your attention and tell you he's interested. Do you see him often? If you really want the answer to your own question, confront and ask him. If you like the guy, be polite and don't act offended.

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    • We text each other haven't met yet. I asked him what way he wants me and he said everything and wants me in his bedroom (for a convo) apparently 😂

    • proceed with caution.

  • I don't know what you're relationship to him was prior to him asking you that, but if you've been friends for a while this is probably something he's been thinking about for a while, and didn't really know how to express how he felt, so he just came, tin and say it. Why guys will do that a lot; they won't really know the best way to approach a girl so they'll skip over any kind of conversation and just awkwardly come right out with it.

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  • It depends on the personality of the guy. If he's shy and awkward, but a good person then he wants to be your boyfriend. On the other hand, if he's known to have a lot of girlfriends and is a player then he just wants your body. Hear him out if he's a nice person.

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  • If you met him the first time and he didn't say it after having in touch for at least a few minutes or so, it most probably means nothing :o
    He may in that case just have seen you and feel physically attracted.
    If however you've been in touch for some time and he knows your personality it could mean a lot more!

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  • I'll be honest, he comes off as creepy to me. He also sounds like he is objectifying you a little bit too much. Don't get me wrong, the only thing a person has to go off of initially is physical appeal. However, this guy comes off way too strong in that manner. He sounds very shallow.

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  • sounds like he has no manners or he is just speaking what he thinks. We have all been there either sex ,, you see someone you find really sexy and your mind goes into overdrive. So i am curious how did you feel , at first surprised but what were tour thoughts after that,, was he fit and you fancied him or just sent for security?

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    • I felt like that about him did a while but obviously never said to him. Yeah I still like him he admitted to liking me too.

    • Thats good as long he wasn't nasty with it ,,

  • Well guys do check out a girl's physique... coz see... u don't usually get attracted to someone's personality in the first place. Now whether this guy in question really wants to be in a relationship or just wants you to please him in bed... that is something for you to judge. But if he really wants a relationship, he's a poor chap at icebreaking.

    Cheers 😃

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  • Why in holy hell would any female invite me to share my opinion on anything? Does this site have some sort of automated BS where it sends notifications like that, or are you really daft enough to think you actually want my opinion?

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  • 99 .9% of every man boy girl or lady that looks in to ur eyes... there going to see.. and feel something so very beautiful. I think some people just think out loud lol and some people just have to say it

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  • Wtf... is wrong with people where is the friendship and chaos and adventure. Its like skip the memories and yeah no go

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  • Not enough context
    It would be helpful to determine if you can give a bit more background story.

    But if he just said that he wants you, then its probably purely sexual.

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  • It certainly sounds like he wants you, but it also sounds the physical part is a priority. It seems, anyway.

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  • Its kind of a grey area here he wasn't really specific he's says he wants you but that could mean sex but since he's said everything that's could mean he wants to get to know you more

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