Most Helpful Girl
Not for me. I look at his character, his personality, and what that person's intentions for the relationship besides his views, values, morals, principals, and beliefs about love, sex, and marriage. His looks are not that important. Because looks fade, personality stays. The heart is more important to me because I needed a person who values me for ME. Not my body. I turned down every guy I never personally know and wasn't friends with for a very long time. And to be honest, your mindset of what you just described is a major turn off for me because it speaks insecurity and not ready to be a leader or a potential husband.