Is she planning hard to get?

Went on 2 great dates with all the French kissing and stuff. But she's been distant recently, takes long to answer my messages when asking her out. Details : we are both med students, besides I'm working loads of night shifts still try to find time for dating.


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What Girls Said 2

  • She could be ghosting you, needs space, or she could actually be busy.

  • Maybe she's bored or maybe she plays hard to get, you have to surprise her !

    • My experience shows that the more you chase women the less they want you :/

    • Then It's your turn to play hard to get, tease her make that girl want to be with you ! Girls likes surprises, try to do special things?

What Guys Said 1

  • Yeah right... She probably found someone else she thinks is better. XD
    Happens all the time.
    Prepare for a heartbreak ahead of time. I don't mean to be a jerk, I am just being realistic. I had this kinda thing happen to me a few times with a few very different girls.

    • So basically you suggest just deleting her number and calling it a day?

    • Not exactly... just be patient and wait it out, until you get a definite answer. Once you are sure, you can delete her number... Or maybe keep it... She might be useful sometime in the future.

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