What are some common red flags in the opposite gender?

What are some common red flags in the opposite gender?

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Bad hygeine
    How he treats others around him
    Arrogance
    Ignorance
    Controlling/possessive
    Closed minded
    An extremest
    Has no direction in life
    Immature
    Stuck up
    Does drugs/nasty habits
    Unhealthy (like doesn't eat right at all, doesn't take care of his body, etc.)

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Most Helpful Guy

  • When she post how sad she is !
    She always take selfies !
    She gives everyone unconditional love but for you not so much !
    When she initiate the talk about sex !
    And finally,
    When she ask you : where are the good men?

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What Girls Said 11

  • How he treats his mom. If he treats her like trash prob means that he won't treat you any better
    Self centered
    Doesn't show any care about s/o

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    • you have you ever heard of a guy complain about how a girl treats her dad? Just curious.

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    • Well I don't see society giving equal respect for fathers. Many dads have made huge sacrifices to provide and protect their families. But thanks to feminism the fathers role in the western family has been mocked, ridiculed and minimalized for the last 20 years.

      He might of not given birth to a child but a strong father makes strong daughters and sons. That's what I'm really getting at.

    • Well good for him. He should that's what he's supposed to do as a father but all said and done he didn't push a whole being out of his body.
      My mom provides more financially than my dad does but my dad does so much more as well. He only played a small part in my creation, but an important one.
      No one here is mocking father hood on top of that? I respect my dad. I respect that I am here because of him. You should respect your dad. You should respect both your parents because of all they do.

  • rude to others
    judge mental of others
    only trash talks exs
    not willing to grow/change
    lazy (no job/poor grades)
    doesn’t pay for meals or offer (they don’t have to just offer same for girls)
    only talks about self

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  • I don't know if it really is considered a red flag but..

    I had a guy squeeze a bottle of ketchup on my bread that I still had to eat, because he didn't want me to eat it because I would get 'fat'.

    Mind you, I'm a size 34/6.

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  • - Irresponsible
    - Doesn't know what the hell to do with his life
    - Always blames other people of everything that happens to him.
    - Tells things about that are meant to kept between his partner and him.
    - Desperate
    - Disloyal
    - Loose morals

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  • Not paying for food, if you didn’t for me I would kick your ass out

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  • Drinks/smokes/does drugs
    Is mean to their mom/father
    Doesn't respect authority
    Hates children/animals and is cruel to them
    Plays video games all day

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  • Either gender, lying about small things, body odor, inability to make a decision as simple as where should we go eat?, staying on their phone every second of the date, being unkind. U?

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  • Being jealous, overly protective, controlling

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  • Asking me to pay for dates. Not having a good job. Punching walls

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  • He brings up sexual connotations right away
    He has kids
    He works at best buy

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    • What's wrong with a man having kids?

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    • Look. Sawno Typically in a partner you want to find someone on the same social, economic, and intelectual level as you. Very few engineers are actively looking for cashiers or dish washers.

    • Clearly people have a flawed outlook on life... watch this video:

      https://youtu.be/foCcrD5-V3k

  • Closed off ness
    Being mean to others
    Self absorbed

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    • If they are autistic, then they can't help it and need a little helping hand because many of them can improve with the right support from their partner. If they're simply jerks, there's no helping them.

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    • Sounds like more hassle for you than it's worth.

    • @tbm1986 it is, I never seem to learn my lesson though

What Guys Said 27

  • Self-importance
    Never believing they can be wrong
    Expecting to be treated like a princess but doing absolutely nothing to deserve it
    Nagging
    Lack of humility
    Belittling behaviour
    Demanding compromise but unwilling to make concessions of her own

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    • Damn, sounds like you know the women I do.

      Your #3 and #7, cover far to many women.

    • Forgot #2, that is 99% of the female population in general. I have not met to many women, that will admit to being wrong.

  • if she is batshit crazy, but doesn't fuck on the first date ;)

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    • Mine is if they find me funny because that means that they have a bad sense of humor.

  • Compares you with her ex.
    Virtue signalling about depression.

    In both cases she indirectly tells you that she is something special and that she is entitled to your special treatment. If you want to keep her you have to do what she wants and if you dont dump her, soon enough she will have the most exagerrated demands from you.

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  • Asks me how much I earn

    Says "I don't mind" when it comes to making decisions

    Let's the guy make all the moves while she sits there and makes no effort

    Is on her phone for most of the day

    Talks about reality TV/things seen on social media as if it's a real, achievable life aspiration

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  • My experiences with the opposite sex tells me that if they act into you then she wants something from you and it's not a relationship or anything mutual like that. Wants goods or services from you or some other selfish thing

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  • Democrat. Feminist. Pot smoker. Wants to get her hands in all of my engineering money. Etc...

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  • She's a feminist.
    She uses word like "cis" or "partiarchy".
    She thinks Communism or Socialism is good.
    She campaigned for Hillary Clinton.
    She thinks slavery is an excuse for racism.
    She has any other SJW tendencies.

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  • -She calls herself a feminist
    -Has a tumblr account
    -'Danger Hair' (dyed in unnatural colors); blue, purple, green, pink, etc.
    -Has a Gender Studies Degree
    -Has a bad relationship with her father
    -Piercings
    -Tattoos
    -Does Drugs

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  • I think the majority of people are just saying things that ARE bad. Red flags are things that might be a warning that someone MAY possess a bad quality. Just my opinion haha 😂

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  • Attitude
    Rudeness
    Nagging
    Trying to flirt with others
    Important -- A fucking wedding ring💍 on her finger... that happened to me...

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  • Feminist
    Tattoos
    Piercings
    Lazy
    No Skills/Talents

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    • Perfect list dude!

      Don't forget single moms. Literal terrorists!

  • Hmmm

    Arrogance, lacks assertiveness, no direction, no interest in self-improvement, disloyalty.

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  • Still lives with her parents and expects you to pay for everything. That's a girl not a woman.

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  • If you say "you're crazy" as a joke and then they get upset by it then you know they are crazy.

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  • There are some but give every girl a chance ~ they might secretly like you but have uniwue ways of expressing

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  • Hmmm... the whole, "strong independynt womxn who don't need no man" thing. "Polyamorous."

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  • You need to know about mgtow
    It has extreme ideas , but it will teach you a lot

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  • A penis shaped bulge in her panties.

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  • When they carry a Blue Flag

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  • Insecurities... insecurities my friend !

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