He had bought me flowers and chocolate which was nice and thoughtful of him! We went for a coffee and we talked about random stuff and he kinda seemed full of shit at some point! Then he mentioned somebody has been using his bank card making purchases around the world and he had to change his card! Then he suggested to go watch a movie and he called his brother to top up his account so he could pay for the movie! I did suggest him that I can pay and it's not a problem at all but he said no and that he has to pay because he asked me for a date! We did kinda hit it off and he made me laugh a lot but as I said he seemed full of shot at some point but I tried not to judge him and just enjoyed our time! Opinion appreciated!
Most Helpful Guy
I think he's probably broke or not well off financially. Sounds like he's making up excuses why he had to ask for money. First of all the bank reimburses stolen money and why would he not have credit cards, excuses. About the flowers I guess it's a nice gesture but it's cliche and comes off as trying to hard.
Most Helpful Girl
He was probably really nervous, but if your gut thinks he's a piece of garbage that's a red flag you need to watch closely.
Sometimes it's a cultural thing, sometimes it's pride, that causes men to want to take on the financial burdens of the first date, but it's concerning he didn't have enough money and needed to call his brother. I know I personally want someone who knows how to be in control of their finances so I would proceed with caution...