I'm not sure if I'm ready to advance our relationship?

So I've been with this guy for a few months, but we've never done anything sexual, even tho we are both over 18, I don't know I guess I wasn't sure if I'd be ready for anything because he's the only boyfriend I've had and I'm still a virgin, but last night we hung out and things got really heated, to the point where he convinced me to give him a bj even tho I've never done it. At the time it felt fine but now I feel like I shouldn't have don't it and I don't know what to do.


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  • The question you should ask is. Do you have to have sex to move further forward with your relationship. If the answer is yes. Then let the guy go.

    Don't rethink of things that happened. It happened because it was meant to. You felt it was right at that moment perhaps this is a good move forward. It's a small step in the right direction. Just let things happen eventually you will get used to it. Can't speak from personal experience but I can talk based on all of my friends explaining it.

  • I would wait for marriage, sex is meant for that


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