Does this mean he doesn't care?
What Guys Said 3
My opinion is that if you are unsatisfied you need to tell him. I think open and honest communication is critical to a good relationship. How will he know he needs to do something different if you never tell him there's a problem?
My guess is that he might just be someone that doesn't really need or want the deep emotional connection that many of us think is one of the best things about being in a relationship.
If you want that deep connection and he's not willing to do it, I think that's probably going to be a very difficult thing to deal with long term. If it's already bothering you after three months, I think it will probably be a lot worse after three years if you stay together and he doesn't change.
What I think I would do in your situation is explain to him that it's important to you to have that deeper kind of relationship and what you think you need to feel that. Then ask him how he feels about that kind of thing. If he's open to it and willing to try it, that's great. If he's not, then I think you will probably have a hard time maintaining the relationship long term because it sounds like it will not be fulfilling for you.
Tell him and if he doesn't improve then make the decision of leaving him or staying with him
You are going in the wrong direction. Dont you think?
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