My first thought was that I'm screwed because being shy and anxious around guys I like, I NEVER make the first move. But then, thinking more about it, I think this information on the radio is a little skewed. Men were asked how they feel, but women weren't.
My sneaking suspicion / theory, is that seeing as how people in general do not like feeling vulnerable and do not like being rejected, and either one can be very disappointing/fear inducing, that everyone (regardless of gender) would prefer that the other person make the first move. Thus, the poll.
- I prefer to make the first move
- I'd prefer if the other person made the first move
Most Helpful Guy
The girl please.
If 88% of people, both men and women prefer the other person to make the first move, than no one will ever make the move. Someone has to compromise. I think it's high time the women start making the first move. Us men have been making it long enough.
Most Helpful Girl
I definitely prefer that the guy make the first move, but in general I end up making the first move and it usually turns out ok
If you could answer a question for me, that would be amazing!