Most Helpful Guy
I married a woman who I knew had a hysterectomy. There are lots of guys like me who do not want to have kids. In fact something smart you could do is to go to The Hamptons in the summertime where lots of single rich guys had vasectomies.
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Most Helpful Girl
Ok here is my outlook on this, there are guys out there that do not want children or eventually will see your children as their own. But when someone doesn't want children in general this is where you may run into a problem if you ever want to progress your relationship with them. You say you dont want them to be a father figure to your kids however if they are involved in your life and your kids are young chances are he will be UNLESS you just plan on dating occasionally and have no real stepping stone and keep it at a constantly level. If your kids are older then it may be different slightly however considering your age I couldnt image they're that old.1