Find and message a girl outside of a dating website?

I found someone on a dating website that I like and sent her a message but she has not logged in and if she has I don't know if she can respond as she may not be a paying member. If I let some time pass and she still has not logged on, would it be ok to try and do a google search to find a social media profile and then send her a message there explaining why I sent her the message? I could see it going one of two ways- she would find it creepy/stalker like that I did it and would send a nasty message or ignore it all together or she might find it sweet that I took the time to find her as it would shows that I am really interested in meeting/dating her. What would you do in this situation?


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