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You realise that life is never without risk and there are no guarantees in relationships. You accept those basic truths. You improve your odds of avoiding hurt by being sensible and by doing your best. You accept that your best is all you can do. You also realise that breakups don't kill you unless you let them. Emotional pain sucks but it's not terminal, you do get over it. Letting go of the fear is what sets you free. Have faith in your ability to cope.