Most Helpful Guy
You have kids, the commitment, live together... Is the piece of paper that serious?
Most Helpful Girl
He has everything he needs so why would he get married- just seems that's what it is.
You need to just get a ring and ask him to marry you - Question I have is: not getting married a deal breaker (as in leave him because of it) cause really u have a life with this guy and a family do u need the marriage license. There are quite a few people who have a family and life together without the license. Also, after 7 years living together it's like a common law marriage anyways.