Is it realistic to find a guy who really impresses me with how great he is? Or should I settle for a guy I just feel okay about, and hope that my feelings grow over time?
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Never settle for something you dont feel strongly about, but also be realistic. The ideal person is just that: an ideal. gotta separate the individual from this ideal and just pick someone who challenges you.
also, im not gonna pretend i know you, but im getting weird vibes from how you phrase things. if you're looking for an amazing person to fawn over it won't happen unless you're that amazing yourself. nobody wants to have a fan as a partner, they want an equal