Im scared of getting close to another man after getting my heart crushed last year.
He has asked on the 2nd month to meet my son but i felt it was too soon so I made up an excuse and met him later that week on my own.
The past few weeks Iv noticed he is cold with me, it’s me who has to start a conversation and still at that id be lucky to get a reply, which is annoying! I have asked him if everything was ok but he said he was busy so not hearing from him a week after that I simply just messaged him and told him I hope he’s doing ok that what ever was going on between us has obviously faded that if he wanted to be friends with benefits he should of said and I would of left the feelings to the side, there was still a friendship there and I didn’t want things to be awkward if we ever bump into each other and to look after himself.
he replied basically saying it wasn’t like that that he has asked what I felt before, reassured me there be no awkward feelings, that he has a lot going on lately with his family that his heads all over the place and he never knew I had feelings like I say I did...
i replied to him stating I like him and pointed out situations that accrued which indicates I do like him. Also apologized for his stress at home and basiclly told him I can’t be waiting around or thinking about someone that I know my value and my worth that I want to be someone’s priority not option.
3 days ago I replied to his message and havnt heard nothing back, I just can’t understand why? I feel confused! I can’t help but think of him and wonder how he is and I do miss his company. Sorry about the details all over the place it’s a bit like my head!