Online relationship and long distance relationship: Are Chinese men really serious in relationship?
What Guys Said 1
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Make sure he isn't a communist spy. Because Chinese communist party are willing to do anything to spread their "socialism with Chinese characteristics" nonsense.
Anyway, as like other people there are good Chinese men and bad Chinese men. Just ask him this, is he okay with falun gong practitioners. Because if he isn't, then he deny their right of religious freedom, and you might want to reconsider dating the guy.
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What Girls Said 2
I am a Chinese born Canadian, and I can say that generally, the men in China are more conservative and shy with expressing their feelings. They do tend to be more serious, and start relationships at an older age compared to the west...
Obviously, this does not apply to all of them! If you like him just go for it! Love is all about those butterflies, and heart aches!
I am chinese American, been here my adult life so no longer understand the chinese culture in that regard... heard things have changed... divorce rate up... also depends on the region he is from, he may have diff. set of value.
8 months LDR... do you two have a time frame when to meet? if not, then its BS.. if you dont meet, its just waste of time.
so work on that...
how realistic is the discantce? how far apart?
how often can you two meet, will you have the money and time to fly around to meet?
i met my boyfriend here on GAG (never thought i would... but it happened_
met in April last yr. online. phone conversations in May, met end of June in person in a diff. state, hung out, was fun.
visited him in his state, i flew there for fun... in July
he came to me in aug. i visited him 12 times last year.
he 6 times to me
we went on 3 trips... we saw ea. other a lot a lot a lot...
it also helps that i am a teacher and have the summer off... so i was at his most of the summer like married...
we had some issues, we are working through... but over all awesome...
we'll host Christmas at his place for his family... we are also older...
so just an example how LD can work out
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