Love: a feeling or an action?

So some people say "I fell in love" as if itwas as spontaneous as getting the flu, I question that.

So one might argue that some people just can't make things work, so there's no love there, and conflict means that there's no chance for love.

Others say that you work through hard times to MAKE it work, even if you feel hurt to try. They say this is love as an action. Like if bae is stressed about everything and snapping at you over nothing, but you still give support even though it kills you to. Is this love? How do you 'fall' into this love?

What do you think? Do you say that you love someone as a feeling when you like them, or do you say you love someone when you act to care for them?

Love: a feeling or an action??
  • Love is a feeling
    Vote A
  • Love is an action
    Vote B
  • It's a bit of both (please elaborate)
    Vote C
  • I'll explain in an opinion
    Vote D
  • I'm just here to see what other people vote
    Vote E
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