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Good plan, don't chase.
Leave the ball in her court.
That is... unless you fall desperately in love. Then you be the fool bud. Leave everything behind. If you fall in love and I mean really in love. Red pill / blue pill... screw it. You have one life, do what you need to for happieness.
That goes for women reading this also. If a man makes you chase don't. It's 50/50 unless your in love 100% and willing to self sacrifice to the ends of the earth for the person. Then toss everything out and go for it balls to the wall. Break every rule your comfortable with to please them and get what you want.