there's one i still want to but as interesting as her profile is there's nothing i can pull out and reference without it feeling like im reaching.
How do you personally go about messaging people on these apps?
Do you take something from their profile? Think up something witty? Make a geeky reference and hope for the best?
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If something caught my eye on their profile I usually comment on that.
Something really dumb like "hey I liked that movie too because so and so" or "hey did you have a chance to listen to NAME ARTISTS last album?"
It gets things going.
If nothing was in their description I just go with something bolder like commenting on their appearance.
I am a girl so guys freak out when I approach first and I think I could say literally any stupid thing and they'd just be happy to have a girl reach out for once.