The norm is that older guys are wiser, mature so they can treat their women as queens and spoil them.. I think that is not necessary true. You may find immature guys older than you and not wiser either.
When I say younger than the woman I dont mean 15 years difference no, I mean like 5 years difference at least between the woman and the guy and still 5 years younger for some people say it is inappropriate
What do you think?
Yesterday I was speaking with my brother and an aunt about this and my aunt said to me. "You have to find a guy older than you who treat you like a queen like 50yrd old guy and it is a good age for you super since you are 46, but of course at that age the guys available are men already divorced with kids, that is something you have to be aware of, you won't find single available guys at 50 with no kids. Then I replied well "I like younger than me, probably like 5 years younger or 8 at the most not more than that i n years." then my brother responded "Hey you want to be a cougar then", That is not good. My brother is 40.
Most Helpful Guy
Your more likely to find a guy who is 50 with grown kids than at 40. At 40 they are more likely to to be divorced with shared custody. A guy 40 or 50 that has never been married and no kids is more likely to be anti relationship and just looking for something casual.
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Most Helpful Girl
Nah not at all. It’s more common to have a couple within 2 years of each other than a massive age gap anyway. My mum is 4 years older than my dad and it was never weird or a big deal.